Non-hate mongering Muslim scholars :
- They mark the wrongs as wrong.
The opposite act is to :
- Highlight the wrongs of anyone you disagree with.
The positive vibe in scholars is rare. And varies in amount from person to person.
So watch who you are identifying with. And who you follow.
Q. "What's wrong with hating? Aren't we encouraged to hate the enemies?"
That's an interpretation cherry picked and taught by some hate monger groups. You can follow that path as hating everyone is easier than not hating. But that ultimately will lead to your downfall and your group's downfall. Hate mongers neither win wars, nor people. Ultimately they end up marking everyone as their enemy.
There's a large road outside your view. Fully supported by Islamic teachings and scholar's interpretation. But to see that you need to come out of the slump you are now stuck in.
The first step will be to dismiss the hate monger scholars you follow. They can't change. But you can. It's your life, you have to be personally responsible for answering to God for your deeds.