The bad thing is death isn't instant, the hospital can chose to keep one alive on life support for as long as it wishes. But it isn't willing to do so, as there are others lining up for life support. The hospital calls you and ask "we want to remove life support for your son, do you agree?"
Only VIP deaths are getting printed on news papers. The rest are death of someone we know that doesn't appear on the news.
Keep strong.